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Celebrating Red Hatting in Victoria (Australia)

Aussie Red Hat Day 2018

The restaurant at the Growling Frog Golf Club was awash with a sea of purple and red on Wednesday 25th July. In attendance were 60 red hatters in all their glorious finery and glittering jewels to celebrate the 17th birthday of red hatting in Australia.

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Serendipity Sisters 19th Birthday

The Serendipity Sisters of Geelong turned 10 on 2nd August.

60 Red Hat Sisters from various Victorian Chapters joined them at the Waurn Ponds Hotel, to help celebrate. Continue reading “Serendipity Sisters 19th Birthday”

Queen’s Council 2018

Aussie Red Hat Day – Kilmore

To celebrate 16 years of Australian Red Hatting, Rubies and Pearls of Kilmore hosted a party on Thursday 27th July at Penny’s Restaurant in Kilmore. Penny’s is located in the heritage listed Old Kilmore Town Hall.

We had 54 ladies from various Victorian locations as well as from NSW. Each guest received a bracelet of rubies and pearls (faux) and a lapel badge commemorating the event. The bracelets were made by two of our ladies and the badges were made by Obsi (web mistress of Red Hats Victoria). But, of course, you are aware of the lovely contribution made to the day.

The room was very elegant with red sashes around each chair and fresh flowers as table centre pieces.

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Fundraising Ideas

It is common for there to be raffles and other forms of fundraising at events to help cover the costs of the event, or to raise money for the chapter.  However fundraising for charities and things outside of Hatting is generally frowned upon at hatting events.

If a chapter would like to do a fundraiser (for example the “Biggest Morning Tea” or a Pink Ribbon fundraiser) as an event for them, this is completely fine – but hosting something like this as an open event for other chapters to attend is not usually done.

From the official Red Hat Society handbook:
“We want to make sure that no one feels any pressure to participate in charitable events if they don’t wish to: we’re all about fun! Many hatters do charity activities as a part of their “regular” lives and prefer to keep their hatting time as pure recess time”

Things a chapter might need to raise money for include: Registration fees, Insurance fees, covering costs of food at home-based gatherings, buying special decorations, birthday cards/presents for members etc.

Some chapters choose to charge a small yearly membership fee to cover these costs, others do fundraisers (some do both).

Fundraising ideas:

  • Fines – Charge a $2 fine for forgetting to wear a hat or name-badge, or for being late.
  • Craft Auctions – If you have crafty members who can create something like hats, cards, jewellery or even baked goods, you could auction these off.  Either splitting the profits with the person donating the items, or with the chapter keeping all profits.
  • Bake sale – Have members bake cupcakes, muffins, slices and other individual portioned foods, then come together for a bake sale where everyone buys a cupcake etc. for a nominated price per item (eg $1/$2 each) with proceeds going to the chapter.
  • Cupcake Decorating – Everyone pays $2 to decorate their cupcake, with decorating items provided by the chapter (eg red and purple frosting, choc chips and other fun things).  The chapter then keeps any profits made.
  • Book Sale – Members bring old books they no longer need and these are then sold off for $2 each or auctioned to raise money.
  • Lucky Dip – Have a selection of inexpensive items wrapped up, and charge $1-$2 per go.
  • Raffle Auction –  Each member buys raffle tickets or coupons (eg 5 tickets for $1), and there are several items to raffle off, each with a bowl next to them.  Members put their raffle tickets into the bowls of the items they want (they can choose to put one ticket in each bowl or several tickets in the one bowl if they really want that item) – then each item has the winner drawn from the bowls.
  • Mystery Auction – Everyone brings a wrapped gift worth $5 or $10, in a particular theme.  People then bid on the mystery package without knowing what is inside it.  You could set a maximum bid for each item so that it doesn’t go beyond a certain limit.  The chapter gets to keep all raised funds.
  • $2 raffle – Have a prize worth $2 and everyone puts $2 into a jar as their entry to the raffle, and their name goes into a hat. The person who gets drawn from the hat gets the prize, and they then buy the prize for the next month raffle.
  • Lolly Jar – Have a jar of lollies and everyone pays $2 to have a guess at how many lollies are in the jar.  The winner gets to keep the lollies and the chapter keeps the money.
  • Cook Book – Have members send in their favourite tried and true recipes, gather them together, then have them printed and bound.  Sell the books to cover the cost of printing plus extra funds for the chapter.
  • Car Wash – Have members bring their cars along and pay a fee to have their car washed (bonus if you can rope in husbands/children to wash the cars, then all the Hatters can gather around relaxing while their cars are being washed!)

Memories Thru The Ages Feb 2017

A fabulous weekend of fun and friendship at the Memories Thru The Ages Convention!

Starting off on Friday with a beach themed dinner.  With themed table decorations, live music and a beach photo booth!  There were some fabulous costumes on display including an amazing mermaid, Jellyfish hatted ladies, bikini-tshirt wearing ladies, old fashioned bathing suits and even a surfboard!

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Christmas fun with the Down Under Scarlett Belles

The Down Under Scarlett Belles had a fun concert for their end of year celebration as well as and a Christmas lunch at Crown Conservatory restaurant!

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Cruise on Lake Nagambie – 2016

Red hatters of Rubies & Pearls of Kilmore were host to 42 ladies from 7 Victorian chapters on a two hour cruise on Lake Nagambie. This was held on Thursday 24th November.

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Due to the huge success of the day, it is planned to be an annual event.

As each lady boarded the Nagambie Explorer vessel, she was presented with a specially prepared post card memento as well as a Christmas gift. Once on board we were given a “safety talk” by Captain Ron as well as him pointing out the well stocked bar. (Stocks were down when we disembarked!!!)

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The weather was mild and no rain. A number of ladies took the opportunity to climb up to the sundeck to take in the full view of the water and its’ surrounds.

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A Serendipties Day Out

Last month the Serendipity Sisters went to Portarlington, to fellow Serendipity Lady Lor-D-Lite’s (Lorraine) home. After a quick bite to eat, including the Red Velvet Cup Cakes with Purple Glitter Icing!! Lorraine’s hubby (Rod) took us for a burn around their town, on  his Honda Gold Star. We had such great fun, in fact I am pretty sure we will do it again!!  A couple of Serendipties declared after their ride ‘gotta get me one of them’!!

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Crowning of Our Queen – The Royal Ladies Of Riddells Creek

Sunday 23rd October. “The Royal Ladies Of Riddells Creek” chapter was formed. Noelene was Crowned “Queen Sapphire” & Julie was crowned “Vice Queen – Lady Of Jewels’. Queen Maureen & Pamela – Lady Laugh A Lot from The Borough Beauties of Greensborough performed the crowning. Several ladies joined the chapter as newly formed members. Thank you to all the ladies who attended.

I hope you all enjoyed the afternoon as much as I did organising it. We have much more planning & fun to have in the future.
Cheers
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Bra Hats

“Bra Hats”?  Yes!  What better way to embrace the fun and sillyness of the RHS by making a hat from a bra!

I’ve yet to find a good step by step tutorial that describes how to do it, but here are some tips, links and photo inspiration to help you.

Making a Bra Hat

  1. Start with a bra – I’d recommend choosing a push up bra with a padded cup in red (or pink), so you don’t need to cover it.
  2. Place the centre of the cups on your forehead where you’d like to wear the hat, and mark how far along the chest straps you need to cut for them to meet at the back of your head.
  3. Leaving a seam allowance – cut the ends off the chest straps and sew them together.
  4. Cut the shoulder straps off.
  5. You can stop now and decorate the hat, or you can do a few more steps
  6. (optional) sew/glue boning from the bottom of the centre of one cup to the opposite side of the band, and again on the other side – forming a cross over the crown of the head.  This helps keep any soft cups looking good, and also gives you a frame onto which you can weave feather boas.  You could use pipe cleaners if you wish.
  7. (optional) If your cups need extra padding to keep their shape, take some stuffing and fill your bra cups, then sew fabric over the top to keep it in place.
  8. Add bling and adornments to make your bra into a fabulous hat!

 

Tutorials (of sorts)

http://www.ehow.com/how_7715673_instructions-hat-made-bras.html
http://cccrittenden.blogspot.com.au/2012/11/red-hatters-create-red-bra-hats.html

Inspiration

 

More photos –

https://au.pinterest.com/polarbear4488/bra-hats/ 

http://www.orgsites.com/al/southernflames/_pgg1.php3

https://www.facebook.com/groups/RedHatsVictoria/permalink/684059708467490/

Golden Gadabouts meet Marilyn 2016

It was a cold and wet day but the Golden Gadabouts had a great time having our picture taken with Marilyn Munroe when she visited Bendigo.

We attracted quite a few on lookers asking about who we were and wanting to take our picture as well. Afterwards we went to the Dumpling House for lunch.

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Aussie Red Hat Day 2016

Rubies and Pearls of Kilmore were hosts to ladies of the Bendigo Golden Gadabouts and the Meadow Larks from Meadow Heights to celebrate the birthday of Red Hatting in Australia on Monday 25th July. Rubies and Pearls arranged a luncheon for all the ladies at Hogan’s Hotel at Wallan where they were wined, dined and entertained.
Vice Queen Kerry of Rubies and Pearls used her amazing culinary skills to produce the delicious cup cakes which were displayed on tiered plates. Our guests were happy to enjoy these delights after the luncheon.

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Holbrook NSW – Natter Hatters

Chapter Name: Natter Hatters
Queen: Queen Ella

Membership: Open (Accepting new members)

Contact Chapter: Email: gabriellabee13@hotmail.com

Restaurant Bill Slips

Sometimes when you go out for a meal with a group of people the venue won’t do “Split Bills” (where each person can pay for their food separately). This can make it difficult for everyone to pay the bill at the end.

Using these bills slips when everyone is deciding what to order, means that the ladies can mark down what they will order and the price – so that they know how much their portion of the bill comes to, including all drinks and extras.

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Red Hatter Songbook

Songbook_previewThis (unofficial) song book contains a selection of songs that have been re-written to give them Red Hatter themed lyrics.  The original song name is in brackets, to let you know the tune of the song.  This songbook was created using songs that have been passed around online.  No authors are known for these rewritten songs.

Download Red Hatter Songbook

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Example Chapter Role Titles

If you have designated roles in the chapter, you can have a little fun with the titles for those roles.  Some examples:

Treasurer

  • Keeper of the Koins
  • Duchess of Dough
  • Miss Moneybags
  • Purveyor of the Purple Privy Purse

Secretary/Communications

  • Town Crier
  • Contessa d’Communique
  • Dutchess of Dialing
  • Empress of Email
  • Duchess Ding-a-Ling

Event Organiser

  • Mistress of Tourism
  • Events Un-Coordinator
  • Chatelaine of Adventure Outings
  • Regent of Reservations

Birthday Organiser

  • Baroness of Birthdays
  • Dame of Dates

Photographer

  • Countess Shutterbug
  • Dame Purple Paparazzi
  • Kountess Kodak
  • Priestess of Point and Click

Hatter Pledges / Vows

These are several examples of pledges/vows a new member or REDuating member can say during a ceremony.  Authors are unknown.  You can tailor these to your own needs.

Pledge Example #1

“I solemnly swear that I will greet middle age with verve, humour and élan.
I will take my silliness seriously as it is the comic relief of life in the spirit of friendship and sisterhood.
I join my red/pink hat sisters as we go for the gusto together.
And beneath the frivolity we will share a bond of affection, common life experiences and a genuine enthusiasm for life and living.”

Pledge Example #2

“We do solemnly promise on our red hats,
That we will do our best to uphold the spirit
Of the ……..(name of the group/chapter) and Red hatting.
And proudly wear the colours – purple outfits and red hats, at all our functions.
And never take our hats off, even though it gives us hat hair.”

Pledge Example #3

“I, ……. pledge to have fun, and only fun with the …….. Red hat group/chapter.
I offer friendship to my Red Hat sisters and respect the ideals of the society.
I will wear my full regalia of purple (lavender) outfit with my red (pink) hat to all chapter gatherings”

Pledge Example #4

“I,…… not solemnly, but with a silly grin, pledge on to uphold the spirit of Red hatting and have fun while participating with my Red Hat sisters.
I will proudly wear my regalia of purple/lavender outfit with my red/pink hat and will participate and give all that I can with my red heart.”

Pledge Example #5

“I……. pledge to wear my colours proudly, never be ashamed of having fun,
And show my spirit of adventure at dressing up and trying something new.
I will forget the troubles of the outside world and turn back the hand of time and reach inside for the little girl within me.
I will laugh, giggle and enjoy in play and treat all fellow Red hatters with hattitude and show honour amongst my hatter sisters.”

Pledge Example #6

“I… being of somewhat sound mind, and desiring to have more fun in the prime of my life, do solemnly swear to uphold the ideals of the RHS, as soon as I figure out what they are.”

Pledge Example #7

“I,_____ , not solemnly but with a silly grin, pledge on my red/pink hat to have fun, and only fun, with ________. I will uphold the spirit by proudly wearing to all gatherings the full regalia of a purple/lavender outfit with an accompanying red/pink hat, even if I look horrific in purple/lavender. I promise to never take off my hat at gatherings, even though it gives me hat hair. I will do more than just belong. I will participate and give all that I can with my red heart. I will be more than friendly, I will be a friend in sisterhood to all the Hatters.”

Pledge Example #8

“I vow to embrace this time in my life as the beginning of the best.
I will reserve at least one day of each month for me.
I accept chocolate as a main food group.
I consider dessert as the main course of a meal.
I will do my best not to take life too seriously.
I choose to laugh as often as possible.
I believe that fun is an essential in life.
I welcome the Red Hat adventures that await me.
I accept the friendships that are around me.
I will be a dedicated Red hatter!”

Pledge Example #9

“Do you solemnly promise on your red hat, that you will do your best, to uphold the spirit of ___{chapter name}___ and The Red Hat Society

and proudly wear the colours at all our functions and never take your hat off, even though it gives you hat hair?
Do you agree to deal with growing more mature with humour and to take our foolishness seriously?

Do you promise to speak only of pleasant subjects at ___{chapter name}____ gatherings?

Do you promise to learn to play your kazoo in the proper manner, or at least learn Happy Birthday?

Do you join in the spirit of friendship & sisterhood as we bond together affectionately, by common, been there, done that & with real enthusiasm for whatever comes next?”

Pledge Example #10

“I, _________________________, A royal subject of the of the red hat society, do hereby pledge:
To wear my hatter colours proudly.
To never be ashamed of having fun.
To show my spirit of adventure at dress-ups by trying something new.
To forget the troubles of the “outside” world during dress-ups.
To turn back time and reach for the little girl inside of me.
To giggle, laugh, dress-up, and play.
To treat not only my chapter, but all other chapters of the red hat society with hattitude that shows honor among all my hatter sisters.”

Friendship Ball

Find a Christmas decoration ball that has a hinged opening or somehow comes apart. Inside place the Friendship ball poem (below) and a small item such as a pair of earrings, a pair of gloves etc. This ball is given to a member who can keep the item inside and add a new one for the next person. They bring the ball with the new treasure inside to the next gathering and pass it on.

The Friendship Ball

A ball is a circle,
No beginning, no end.
It keeps us together.

Like our Circle of Friends.
But the treasure inside, for you to see
is the treasure of friendship

You’ve granted to me.
Today I pass the friendship ball
to you.

Pass it on to someone who is a friend to you.

Scavenger Hunts

A good multi-chapter event. There are numerous ways you can hold a scavenger hunt, so get creative. You can break everyone up into teams of 2 or more. You can have them in one location – such as a shopping centre, or have them search around a whole town.

Set a start and finish time, hand out each team a sheet of instructions and things they are looking for. Make sure you specify if they are to bring back items or just photograph them, and if they need to enter any shops or if they are only to look from outside.

As this is likely to cause some disruption to the shops or shopping centre, please ask the shopping centre management or the council before planning a scavenger hunt.

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Shopping Centre

Go to a shopping centre and split into pairs or groups (pair up people who don’t know each other to help them make new friends!) and together they need to find landmarks and other points of interest around the shopping centre. Using cryptic clues for the things the members need to find.

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Find a number/letter

Can be done with an indoor shopping centre or small strip of shops – ask the shops to display a number/letter you give them (perhaps cut from red glitter card) in their front window. Hunters need to note the shop name and what letter/number they found.

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Landmarks

Set clues for which landmarks they are hunting for.  These could be street signs, statues, a particular tree or shop.  They can photograph the landmark or note down some answer they get from that location.

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Photographic Hunt

Teams must take photos of the following scenarios:

  • Photograph a female stranger who is a great example of a red hatter, but doesn’t even know it.
  • Photograph the cutest pair of purple undies you can find.
  • Photograph the team next to a sign with the number 50 on it (could be a house sign, street sign, price sign, etc.)
  • Photograph a Red Hat (must not belong to any of your team)
  • Photograph items that fill in the blanks:
    • I shall spend my pension on ________ and _________
    • I shall go out in my _______________ in the rain
    • And eat three pounds of ______________ at a go
    • Or only ____________ and ____________ for a week
    • And hoard __________s and ____________s and _______mats
    • and things in _________

Hatter Commandments & Creed

The 10 Red Hatter commandments:

  1. Thou shalt use thy Red Hat powers for good deeds (bring joy and laughter to all you meet).
  2. Thou shalt eat thy favorite foods, including chocolate. After all, diet is just a four letter word.
  3. Thou shalt be a kindred spirit in your sisterhood. Keep your confidences and friendships strong.
  4. Thou shalt put on the glitz! Wear purple glory, big red hats, flashy jewellry, and feathers: be a Dame!
  5. Thou shalt play. Be young in heart and mind and your body will follow – -at least most of the time!
  6. Thou shalt welcome the curious and explain the wonders of Red Hat to all who ask, especially small children and handsome men.
  7. Thou shalt accept the things you cannot change, big or small. We’re good at rolling with the punches.
  8. Thou shalt aspire to anything in life at any age. It’s never too late to skydive.
  9. Thou shalt honour thy age and the need to be a little bad.
  10. Thou shalt repeat the first nine commandments, over and over and over.

Author Unknown

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Red Hatter creed:

I will not walk softly, but I will carry a big stick.
I will laugh hard, loud, and often I will have fun, and play hard.
I will put all work and responsibilities off until tomorrow.
I will take time to smell the flowers.
I will never use the following words: “diet”, “exercise”, “fat”, “guilt”, “careful”, “slow”, “quiet”, “rules”, “laws”, “boundaries”, or “limits”.
I will never say “Shhhhhhhh”.
I will flaunt my red hat and purple dress.
I will not always endure the restraints of underwear.
I will eat chocolate excessively and unyieldingly.
I will learn to indulge myself in both familiar and unfamiliar ways
And will encourage Red Hat behavior.

by Lil’ Mz.Chevious (Carole Mebane, RHS Moll)

Ode to a Red Hatter

Ode to a Red Hatter

Isn’t it lovely and simply divine?
To finally be fifty and not forty-nine?
Fifty has substance, fifty has style;
Now you can do things that make folks smile.

None of this nonsense talk of “over the hill”
Relax and have fun, just do what you will.
You can wear purple outfits and a silly red chapeau;
Trimmed in feathers and flowers, be always on the go.

None of that “old talk” for this active bunch;
It’s off to bingo, or a tea shop lunch.
We may have some aches; wrinkles may dot the skin;
But we’re in glorious shape, for the shape that we’re in.

We giggle and simper, gossip and tease;
Say what we feel, it’s us that we please.
You may find us silly; you may roll your eyes;
You may think purple, a strange disguise.

But purple is royal, it makes a grand show;
We have a Queen Mother; she is wise we all know.
So dust off the cobwebs and let’s have some fun.
Join The Red Hats, where new life has begun.

You can be an old fogey and sit on the side;
Or join all of us, wear our colors with pride.
That is our story; we hope you’ll agree;
Belonging to The Red Hats, is the best place to be……

(Author Unknown)

Rubies & Pearls of Kilmore

Chapter Name: Rubies & Pearls of Kilmore
Queen: Queen Janesca (Jan)

Membership: Open (Accepting new members)

Contact Chapter:  Phone: 0419509040 Email: jedami238@outlook.com

Queen’s Council 2016

The 2016 Queen’s Council (Queenathon) was held on 1st May in Wantirna.  There were Queens/Vice Queens and representatives from 21 Chapters around Victoria.

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The event was held with topics being discussed first on each table, then a summary of those discussed points was given to the entire room, so that everyone could benefit from the sharing of ideas.

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Arabian Nights & Majestic Days 2016

The hills were awash with a sea of red and purple, when 80 Red and Pink Hatters from around Victoria (and the border) got together for a weekend of fun (and a little business).

The “Arabian Nights and Majestic Days” weekend event saw the ladies starting out with a ride on the Puffing Billy steam train to Emerald, where they enjoyed a picnic, a stroll around Emerald Lake park and some shopping!

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Later that evening the ladies were dazzled with bellydance performances and had fun dressing up for an “Arabian Nights” themed dinner.

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Then, after all the fun and frivolity, it was eventually time to get down to business. The Queens and Vice Queens from 21 different groups around Victoria got together to share ideas and network as part of the annual “Queen’s Council” lunch.

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Photo Gallery – Queen’s Council

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Performances by Bohka Tribal and Happy Hips Bellydance

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REDuation Ceremony

The REDuation ceremony celebrates the progression from Pink Hatter to Red Hatter.

Ideas:

  • The Reduate can wear a pink hat which is then passed to the next youngest Pinkie to represent passing on of knowledge, that Pinkie can use that hat for her REDuation and so on.
  • The old pink hat can be burned or put away in a hat box, to symbolise that it is not needed any more.
  • The REDuate dresses in purple clothing but with a lavender shawl/cloak/fabric over the top, so that she can remove it when she is declared a Red Hatter
  • The Warning poem can be read out, and items given to the REDuate to represent the lines of the poem

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Welcoming a New Member

New members can be welcomed with a ceremony where they can be presented with their name-badge and officially be given their Royal name.   You may also like to give them a Red Hatter survival Kit.  There are pledges/vows the new member can take as well. These can be tailored to your needs.

For the ceremony, you can call the member forth. You may like to have a red carpet (length of red fabric or scarf/sarong/pashmina), with the chapter members standing along each side to form a walkway. Members can hold (closed) umbrellas/parasols up to form an archway.

The Queen should say some words of greeting to the new member. The 10 Red Hatter commandments could be read:

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Literal Fashion Show

The idea is to take an outfit name, such as “bell bottoms” and make a literal version, for example attaching bells onto your derriere. A selection of names for clothing items that could have literal meanings are placed in a hat and members draw one (keeping it secret), then at the fashion show (perhaps a week or two later) they show off the creations they have made.  Having fun descriptions to read out as the ladies are showing off their creations would be good

The Commentator can wear a sack dress with potatoes on it (common-tater ;) )

Examples

  • “Pillbox hat” – a hat with medication boxes attached
  • “Ball gown” – dress with balls attached
  • “Bloomers” – pants with artificial flowers on them
  • “Double breasted jacket” – jacket with 2 bras
  • “Print Dress” – Dress made out of newspapers
  • “14 Karat Necklace” – 14 plastic carrots made into a necklace
  • “Crop Top” – A blouse or pants with plastic vegetables attached to it
  • “Tea Dress” – Dress with tea bags attached to it
  • “Straw Hat” – Hat with plastic drinking straws attached to it
  • “Bare Feet” – bear slippers
  • “Box pleated skirt” – hang small boxes from ribbons fastened around waist
  • “Dressed to the Nines”  – fasten the number 9 on a garment
  • “Panty hose” – Fasten a length of garden hose to a pair of coloured underpants
  • “Baby doll PJ’s'” – small dolls onto a pair of PJ’s
  • “Hot pants” – A heating pad front and back on a pair of shorts
  • “spring dress/hat” – Slinkies or springs attached to the dress/hat
  • “pin stripe” – rows of safety pins
  • “An EYE catching dress” – attach weird eye glasses to it, with a huge eye drawn on paper and pinned to the back of it.
  • “Tie Back” – men’s ties pinned to the back
  • “Chequred drerss” –  blank cheques pinned on dress
  • “Turtleneck” – a stuffed turtle tied around one’s neck
  • “Brief case” – pair of men’s briefs stretched over a purse
  • “cocktail dress” – a long evening dress covered with small plastic glasses, or feathers
  • “Cotton Dress” – cotton balls stuck to the dress
  • “A-Line” –  letter “A____” written on garment
  • “Sweet Ensemble” – garment covered in lollies
  • “House Shoes” – pictures of houses on the shoes.
  • “Card’igan” – fasten playing cards or greeting cards onto a jumper
  • “House dress” – pictures of houses all over a dress
  • “plunging neck line” –  a toilet plunger on a rope hung around the neck
  • “Sweat pants” –  attach empty deodorant bottles to a pair of tracksuit pants
  • “Regular Dress” –  prunes, bran, laxatives.
  • “Garden Dress” – seed packages on it
  • “sun dress” –  dress covered with pictures of the sun

Christmas and Birthdays

Some chapters have celebrations they do for Christmas and Birthdays. Some chapters will send members a birthday card on their birthday, or mention all the birthdays for the month in their newsletters. Chapter funds may be used to pay for a drink for the member whose birthday falls during that month – or other such customs.

Some ideas for Christmas gift exchange are:

  • Everyone brings a giftwrapped box containing items to a value of $10 or $20. These are placed on a table and are given at random to members (making sure the member does not receive her own box). The boxes are reused for the next year gifts.
  • As above, but another variant can be that the gifts can have a particular theme, or can be in the form of 5 low cost items of a particular type, for example: “One for the bedroom, one for the bathroom, one for the kitchen, one personal and something red”.
  • White Elephant exchange – Everyone brings a wrapped up item with a $5 value. The first person picks a wrapped gift at random an opens it. The next person can choose to steal the gift the first person opened, or select a new one. Then the next person has their turn, and so on. When a gift is stolen, the person whose gift was stolen may either replace it with a gift stolen from someone else or select a new gift. The game ends when the last unwrapped gift has been chosen.
  • Truth be Told – Have around 10-20 statements written on slips of paper. Everyone starts with a wrapped gift in front of them. When a statement is read out, anyone who answers yes to the statement has to swap their gift with someone else. Statements can be things such as “have you ever gone overseas”, “are you wearing pearls” etc.
  • The Right/Left game – there are several versions of the stories that can be read out, but the way they are played is always the same. (There is a Christmas version in our games section) You can start with everyone holding a gift, or just use the one gift – and as the story is read out, whenever the word “RIGHT” is spoken, everyone hands the gift to the person on their right. When “LEFT” is spoken, the gift is passed to the person on the left. Some versions also include “ACROSS” where it is passed across the table to the person opposite.

Hosting an Event

You may like to hold a larger get-together with ladies from other local chapters, or open it up to invite any Hatters from around Victoria or even around Australia.

Running a larger event can be a bit daunting so here are some tips:

~ Choosing a Date

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Pick a date that doesn’t conflict with any existing Hatter events or any public holidays.  Make sure to check the upcoming events and our Facebook Group events. If your event is a large one that interstate Hatters might like to attend, make sure it’s not on when any other large events are on (in any State)
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~ Venues

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Choose a venue that has good parking and ideally good facilities for those with mobility issues and access to public transport. If serving food, check they can cater for food intolerances.

Picnic – Attendees bring their own food, and you can find a park that won’t cost money to hire. Be aware that you’ll need toilets and shade might also be good to have. Check insurance issues and if any council regulations apply.

Restaurant meal with group booking – Attendees will pay for their own meal and drinks. The venue will have insurance, making this a nice easy way to have an event. Although numbers might be limited due to space. Also make sure to choose restaurants that will allow each guest to pay for their own meal (usually “clubs” do this, smaller restaurants usually do not)

Booking a private room/venue – These usually require you to pay a fee to hire the space, and you’ll also pay a price per head for each meal.

When doing this, you will need to make sure you cover your costs. Make sure you add up how much the venue hire costs, plus any decorations you need to buy, and any other expenses (not including the food costs at this point). If you are including goodies/prizes, factor those in too. Then work out how many people you can have attending (and if there’s minimum number of guests you need).

Dividing the total cost of all expenses by the number of attendees will give a cost per person you need to charge (on top of the cost of the food) to break even in an ideal situation where all seats are booked.

However if you don’t have full attendance or you have cancellations, then you’ll be out of pocket. So you may like to either add a few dollars onto the charge of each guest, or run some raffles or other moneyraising things at the event to cover those extra expenses. If you end up with a profit, you can put that towards your next event.

Make sure you have all the bookings you need by the date you’ll need to cancel by to get deposits back. So you can cancel the event if you need to.
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~ Pacing

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Not all Hatters can cope with a lot of physical activity or a long event. So if you have a multiple day event, you may need to schedule a rest time between morning and evening events.  Some ladies might want to go back to their rooms to freshen up and change clothes.

If you have an event where attendees will need to move from one building/activity to another, make sure to allow plenty of time for those who walk slowly.

If you are having games and activities, make sure to allow plenty of time for everyone to move around and get ready.
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~ Give all the Information

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Make sure your attendees know everything they need: Cost, date, time, when payment is due, how to make payment (on the day or in advance), dresscode, expectations (eg if there will be anything unusual like walking/stairs/games), who is running it – and anything else you think they should know beforehand.

Depending on the venue, giving information on parking, accommodation options in the area and other such things can also be very helpful for your guests.
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~ Advance Notice

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Give plenty of advanced warning/notice of the event (even post a “saving the date” if you have a date in mind but no further details ready) – so everyone has time to prepare (including you!!).

This allows your attendees to keep the date free, set money aside and it also allows other Chapters to know when your event is when planning their own to avoid conflicts.
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~ Public Liability Insurance

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If you do not have a policy to cover your chapter, then you may wish to choose venues that have their own insurance cover.  Check liabilities of hosting in public parks and at member homes etc.

See the article on Chapter Insurance here
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~ Format of your event notices
  • Saving your event flyer/promo as an image is the best way for it to be shared in a way everyone can view it properly.
  • Flyers as a .doc or .docx can be unreadable for some Hatters, and often any layout and fonts you use will not look the same when opened on the other person’s computer/laptop/phone. So this is not recommended for event notices.
  • Save your .doc files document as a .pdf file instead to preserve the same look and make it readable. (Note: if you use Microsoft word, you cannot do this in the program itself. If you use Libre Office, you can simply “export to pdf” under the file menu)

Easy & pretty way to make event flyers
The easiest way to make a great looking flyer is to use Canva (which is a free online tool) – this allows you to make great looking posters and other things, using graphics and templates they provide.  You can then download the creation as an image or a .pdf  (or both!).

One thing to be aware of –  I would recommend creating a new gmail/hotmail email address that you only use for accessing Canva (eg do not use your existing one!) and DO NOT use the same password for canva as you do for anything else.  This is because the website has been known in the past to have data breaches (where email addresses and passwords get stolen, allowing “hackers” to then use your email/password to get into other sites pretending to be you).  If you use an email address and password for Canva that is not used for anything else, then there is no problem using the site (I use canva regularly myself, and it’s not an issue if you use a separate email/password)

Making an image on your laptop/PC
You can open a new blank file in a graphics program (all laptops/computers should come with a basic one, they are usually called “paint” or something similar). Then just make your event flyer in that and save it as a .png file (higher quality) or .jpg file (lower quality).  If you want something fancier, you can download a free program called “Gimp” which has more options, or use Adobe Express (also free).

Making a .pdf from a .doc file
If you’ve written your event flyer in Microsoft Word, you can use Adobe Acrobat Online to convert it to a .pdf for free.

A free alternative to Microsoft Word is Libre Office which has inbuilt ability to save files as a .pdf.  When using that program you can go to “File”, then select “export as” and save the document as a .pdf.  Easy!!

Making a .pdf into an image -You can use your “PrtScn” button on your keyboard to take a screenshot of what you’ve made, then open a graphics program (eg “paint”) – choose to “paste” the image, then choose the “crop” tool and drag the edges to select only your flyer, then save that cropped version as an image.

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~ Themed Events

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These can be fun, but be mindful of how easily members may be able to find/make outfits to go with the theme (and the cost of them participating in costuming). Try to pick an easy theme, perhaps a variation on themes other chapter events have already done that members might already have costumes for, and perhaps offer some suggestions to get the creative juices flowing.
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~ Keeping Event Costs Low

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Be mindful of the cost – not all Hatters have the same budgets or availability.

  • Splitting up an event – For events that run over a couple of days, charging for each part separately would allow for Hatters with a limited budget, or those who cannot be away for a whole weekend to attend some parts of the event without having to avoid the whole event.  This might mean some parts of the event get more bookings than others, but could mean more Hatters are able to attend.
  • Borrow Decorations – You might be able to get decorations from other Chapters, members or even your local theater group or school to avoid buying them to keep costs down.  it might also be less wasteful to borrow decorations rather than buying new, especially if you won’t be keeping them for reuse.
  • Choose a basic venue – Not all events need to be in a fancy upmarket venue.  A local club could be perfectly fine for a group of 30 or less.
  • Accommodation – If hosting an event where attendees will need to travel – be mindful of the accommodation costs.  Some Hatters do not like to drive at night, so having a brunch or lunch event (instead of dinner), could enable more attendees to drive home rather than needing to stay the night.
  • Midweek – A weekday event might be cheaper for attendees than weekend – particularly if they need to stay the night.
  • Shop Cheap – Make sure you check $2 shops, art supply shops and online cheap stores like ebay/Amazon/Temu, Aliexpress for supplies, decorations and trinkets.
  • See the section below for making goodie bags and gifts on the cheap.

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~ Delegation

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Make sure it is not just the Queen running it to save your Queen from burning out. Get the chapter involved – which can help the members feel more part of the event too.

  • For a large event, form an event planning committee and set tasks for members to help organise and run the event.
  • If you have members who are creative, set them to work on decorating, creating event notices and other things.
  • If you have members who are good at talking to people they can look after bookings and so on.
  • If you have members who are good with computers/tech get them to make flyers and post on facebook.
  • Communicate with other chapter Queens if appropriate – Letting them know of the event, and if necessary asking for their assistance in running it and inviting their members.

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~ Privacy Concerns

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Privacy for yourself as an event host:

  •  Event info you post to this website or our Facebook group will be visible to anyone. Therefore keep your personal info off the event flyers and give anything you want to keep private only to those who contact you for bookings.
  • Use your hatter name or chapter name instead of your full name on event notices.
  • Use mobile phone/email instead of home phone.  If your personal email address includes your real name, consider making a gmail account for Hatting event use.
  • Give banking details only to attendees who have booked/registered rather than posting in the event listing. (This will also help you keep track of payments better, as it will stop people paying before registering)
  • If you are hosting an event in your home, you should withhold the address and give that to only attendees who have booked/registered, and only accept bookings from people you know are Hatters and can be vouched for.

Privacy for your Attendees:

  • Any information you record of your attendees (such as names, phone numbers, email addresses) should be used only for the event they registered for and should be kept private and not shared with anyone outside of the event.
  • For example – If someone asks on the facebook group if anyone has a Hatter’s contact information, and you have it from them having contacted you for an event – it is not appropriate for you to pass that contact information on, because it was given to you for the event booking usage, not anything else.
  • It is not appropriate {nor legal} to use their email address or phone number to contact them on other matters unless you have their permission to do so. This includes emailing them about future events you hold.
  • If you take photos during your event, and want to post them online, please make sure everyone in the photo/video is aware and has the opportunity to decline to have their images put online. (You can include notice of this in an indemnity waiver for your event.)

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~ Exposure for your Event

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Not all Victorian Hatters check this website, and not all Victorian Hatters are on our facebook group either.  Therefore for maximum exposure for your event it is recommended to:

  • List your event on this website.
  • Post your event on our facebook group. http://www.facebook.com/groups/RedHatsVictoria as an image or as a written post. (You need to do this yourself).
  • List your event as an “event” on our facebook group, so it goes into the facebook event listing.  (You need to list the event yourself)
  • Ask Chapter Queens you know to pass the event information on to their members.
  • Don’t forget to promote your event again (via facebook) over time if you still need more bookings – to make sure those who have forgotten to book are reminded!

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~ Goodies/Gifts for Attendees

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If making “showbags” or goodie bags for the attendees (or putting some little place setting gifts), make sure you plan this in advance so you can grab some bargains to keep your costs low. Also be aware that while fun,  these are not necessary!

  • Some Hatters are at the point in their Hatting where they don’t need more “stuff”, particularly those who have been Hatting for a while and have a lot of stuff already. So you don’t need to include goodies, and if you do, perhaps use smaller lower cost items to keep the budget down.
  • Make sure you check $2 shops, art supply shops and online cheap stores like ebay/Amazon/Temu, Aliexpress for supplies, decorations and trinkets.
  • Buy in bulk to save cost.
  • Perhaps get chapter members to help make/assemble things. Eg buy craft supplies in bulk and have members make things rather than buying premade things if it’s cheaper to do so.
  • A simple wrapped chocolate on the place setting could be enough!  (If the wrapping is red/purple even better!) Edible goodies have the advantage that they do not need to be stored and there’s no issue of whether the attendee already has one.  You could print little paper slips or tags to go around a snack size chocolate bar that promotes your event to personalise it a little more.  Just be aware to avoid anything that could cause allergy issues for attendees (nuts, gluten etc.)
  • You could buy (or make) red or purple little bomboniere bags or boxes and put a few chocolates/sweets in those.
  • Consider cheaper things you could print at home and laminate (or have Officeworks print).  Buying a laminator (They cost around $25) for the chapter might be a good investment if none of your members have one.  Such as: bookmarks, place setting nameplates, drink coasters, placemats etc. – Check our Printables page
  • Consider a little something that is a commemorative thing for your event.  If it’s a Coronation, special chapter birthday or other big event, you could make something that mentions that.  Eg make a custom printable (bookmark/coaster/placemat), jewellery, have a custom pen/pencil printed, have custom stickers or badges made.

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~ Registration/booking forms

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Some event hosts like to provide a registration form where attendees have to fill out their details and sign a waiver – rather than simply having the attendees email or phone to RSVP.

While you may only need to know their name so you can make sure you know how many (and who) is attending, it is also a good idea to have at least their phone number and email address in case you need to contact them to inform them of any changes to the event.

If you do have a booking/registration form for your event, please be aware that these can be problematic for both event hosts and the attending hatters for these reasons:

  • Some Hatters are not computer literate enough to modify documents to add their details, and may not know how to do that and send them back electronically.
  • Most people do not have the software required to edit .pdf files. So if your event flyer is in a .pdf format and requires them to fill out a form, this will be more difficult for attendees.
  • Some Hatters cannot open word (.doc or .docx) files (particularly those who only use a phone for their internet)
  • Some Hatters do not have access to a printer to print off forms to handwrite their details.
  • Having handwritten information (Such as phone numbers and email addresses) sent to you can often be VERY difficult to read!!  So as an event host, it really is better to receive that information in ANY other way that doesn’t involve the attendees handwriting their information.
  • Requesting chapters book together on the one form may save time.
  • Simply asking attendees to email or message you with their name, phone number and any other information you require may be the easiest way to receive that information, but they may not provide it all, so you might have to email them back to ask for it.
  • If you do require handwritten forms for some reason, rather than having them post the paper to you by mail, you may be able to request the attendees photograph the completed form and send you the photo (or scan it if they have the capability to do so).

Options for Booking forms

  • Google Forms – Google has a “forms” tool that lets you customise what specific information you need to be emailed to you.  This can be filled out by anyone who has the link – they do not need a google account, but you will need to.  Click here for a tutorial on how to make a Google Forms event booking form.
  • Booking form in your event notice – If your event notice/flyer is available in a .doc format, you can put your booking form at the bottom of the event information.
  • Download a generic booking form – If you need a separate booking form for your event, you can download a basic one Here or one with a pricing section Here.

— please note that you should NEVER request or send credit card information via email, facebook, messenger, whatsapp etc. These are NOT secure enough to transmit sensitive information such as credit card information! (The reason is difficult to explain briefly, but it’s easy for the information to be intercepted and used nefariously). Send this information over the phone instead.

    If you have a paypal account, it is secure to give your paypal email address and ask the attendee to pay into your paypal account.

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~ Indemnity Waivers

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Indemnity forms added with booking forms can be problematic for the reasons stated above with booking forms.

An alternative to having Hatters complete a waiver at registration may be to have as part of the booking process wording that says that by booking and attending this event, you agree to the terms of the waiver.  So long as that’s clear, then all attendees have agreed to your terms by the fact they are at the event.

A sign-in sheet at the event that includes a waiver may also be a good option regardless of whether your booking form includes one or not – so all those attending have to sign in, which also signs the waiver, as well as providing you with a list of those who actually attended.   You can download a sign-in sheet here

Also be aware that simply having an indemnity waiver may not be adequate to prevent any liability should an incident happen at the event, so they may actually be worthless.  It is best to seek legal advice on waivers and public liability if you are unsure.
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