The Serendipity Sisters of Geelong turned 10 on 2nd August.
60 Red Hat Sisters from various Victorian Chapters joined them at the Waurn Ponds Hotel, to help celebrate. Continue reading “Serendipity Sisters 19th Birthday”
The Serendipity Sisters of Geelong turned 10 on 2nd August.
60 Red Hat Sisters from various Victorian Chapters joined them at the Waurn Ponds Hotel, to help celebrate. Continue reading “Serendipity Sisters 19th Birthday”
To celebrate 16 years of Australian Red Hatting, Rubies and Pearls of Kilmore hosted a party on Thursday 27th July at Penny’s Restaurant in Kilmore. Penny’s is located in the heritage listed Old Kilmore Town Hall.
We had 54 ladies from various Victorian locations as well as from NSW. Each guest received a bracelet of rubies and pearls (faux) and a lapel badge commemorating the event. The bracelets were made by two of our ladies and the badges were made by Obsi (web mistress of Red Hats Victoria). But, of course, you are aware of the lovely contribution made to the day.
The room was very elegant with red sashes around each chair and fresh flowers as table centre pieces.
It is common for there to be raffles and other forms of fundraising at events to help cover the costs of the event, or to raise money for the chapter. However fundraising for charities and things outside of Hatting is generally frowned upon at hatting events.
If a chapter would like to do a fundraiser (for example the “Biggest Morning Tea” or a Pink Ribbon fundraiser) as an event for them, this is completely fine – but hosting something like this as an open event for other chapters to attend is not usually done.
From the official Red Hat Society handbook:
“We want to make sure that no one feels any pressure to participate in charitable events if they don’t wish to: we’re all about fun! Many hatters do charity activities as a part of their “regular” lives and prefer to keep their hatting time as pure recess time”
Things a chapter might need to raise money for include: Registration fees, Insurance fees, covering costs of food at home-based gatherings, buying special decorations, birthday cards/presents for members etc.
Some chapters choose to charge a small yearly membership fee to cover these costs, others do fundraisers (some do both).
Fundraising ideas:
A fabulous weekend of fun and friendship at the Memories Thru The Ages Convention!
Starting off on Friday with a beach themed dinner. With themed table decorations, live music and a beach photo booth! There were some fabulous costumes on display including an amazing mermaid, Jellyfish hatted ladies, bikini-tshirt wearing ladies, old fashioned bathing suits and even a surfboard!
The Down Under Scarlett Belles had a fun concert for their end of year celebration as well as and a Christmas lunch at Crown Conservatory restaurant!
Continue reading “Christmas fun with the Down Under Scarlett Belles”
Red hatters of Rubies & Pearls of Kilmore were host to 42 ladies from 7 Victorian chapters on a two hour cruise on Lake Nagambie. This was held on Thursday 24th November.
Due to the huge success of the day, it is planned to be an annual event.
As each lady boarded the Nagambie Explorer vessel, she was presented with a specially prepared post card memento as well as a Christmas gift. Once on board we were given a “safety talk” by Captain Ron as well as him pointing out the well stocked bar. (Stocks were down when we disembarked!!!)
The weather was mild and no rain. A number of ladies took the opportunity to climb up to the sundeck to take in the full view of the water and its’ surrounds.
Last month the Serendipity Sisters went to Portarlington, to fellow Serendipity Lady Lor-D-Lite’s (Lorraine) home. After a quick bite to eat, including the Red Velvet Cup Cakes with Purple Glitter Icing!! Lorraine’s hubby (Rod) took us for a burn around their town, on his Honda Gold Star. We had such great fun, in fact I am pretty sure we will do it again!! A couple of Serendipties declared after their ride ‘gotta get me one of them’!!
Sunday 23rd October. “The Royal Ladies Of Riddells Creek” chapter was formed. Noelene was Crowned “Queen Sapphire” & Julie was crowned “Vice Queen – Lady Of Jewels’. Queen Maureen & Pamela – Lady Laugh A Lot from The Borough Beauties of Greensborough performed the crowning. Several ladies joined the chapter as newly formed members. Thank you to all the ladies who attended.
“Bra Hats”? Yes! What better way to embrace the fun and sillyness of the RHS by making a hat from a bra!
I’ve yet to find a good step by step tutorial that describes how to do it, but here are some tips, links and photo inspiration to help you.
Making a Bra Hat
Tutorials (of sorts)
http://www.ehow.com/how_7715673_instructions-hat-made-bras.html
http://cccrittenden.blogspot.com.au/2012/11/red-hatters-create-red-bra-hats.html
Inspiration


More photos –
https://au.pinterest.com/polarbear4488/bra-hats/
http://www.orgsites.com/al/southernflames/_pgg1.php3
https://www.facebook.com/groups/RedHatsVictoria/permalink/684059708467490/
Rubies and Pearls of Kilmore were hosts to ladies of the Bendigo Golden Gadabouts and the Meadow Larks from Meadow Heights to celebrate the birthday of Red Hatting in Australia on Monday 25th July. Rubies and Pearls arranged a luncheon for all the ladies at Hogan’s Hotel at Wallan where they were wined, dined and entertained.
Vice Queen Kerry of Rubies and Pearls used her amazing culinary skills to produce the delicious cup cakes which were displayed on tiered plates. Our guests were happy to enjoy these delights after the luncheon.
Sometimes when you go out for a meal with a group of people the venue won’t do “Split Bills” (where each person can pay for their food separately). This can make it difficult for everyone to pay the bill at the end.
Using these bills slips when everyone is deciding what to order, means that the ladies can mark down what they will order and the price – so that they know how much their portion of the bill comes to, including all drinks and extras.
This (unofficial) song book contains a selection of songs that have been re-written to give them Red Hatter themed lyrics. The original song name is in brackets, to let you know the tune of the song. This songbook was created using songs that have been passed around online. No authors are known for these rewritten songs.
If you have designated roles in the chapter, you can have a little fun with the titles for those roles. Some examples:
Treasurer
Secretary/Communications
Event Organiser
Birthday Organiser
Photographer
These are several examples of pledges/vows a new member or REDuating member can say during a ceremony. Authors are unknown. You can tailor these to your own needs.
Pledge Example #1
“I solemnly swear that I will greet middle age with verve, humour and élan.
I will take my silliness seriously as it is the comic relief of life in the spirit of friendship and sisterhood.
I join my red/pink hat sisters as we go for the gusto together.
And beneath the frivolity we will share a bond of affection, common life experiences and a genuine enthusiasm for life and living.”
Pledge Example #2
“We do solemnly promise on our red hats,
That we will do our best to uphold the spirit
Of the ……..(name of the group/chapter) and Red hatting.
And proudly wear the colours – purple outfits and red hats, at all our functions.
And never take our hats off, even though it gives us hat hair.”
Pledge Example #3
“I, ……. pledge to have fun, and only fun with the …….. Red hat group/chapter.
I offer friendship to my Red Hat sisters and respect the ideals of the society.
I will wear my full regalia of purple (lavender) outfit with my red (pink) hat to all chapter gatherings”
Pledge Example #4
“I,…… not solemnly, but with a silly grin, pledge on to uphold the spirit of Red hatting and have fun while participating with my Red Hat sisters.
I will proudly wear my regalia of purple/lavender outfit with my red/pink hat and will participate and give all that I can with my red heart.”
Pledge Example #5
“I……. pledge to wear my colours proudly, never be ashamed of having fun,
And show my spirit of adventure at dressing up and trying something new.
I will forget the troubles of the outside world and turn back the hand of time and reach inside for the little girl within me.
I will laugh, giggle and enjoy in play and treat all fellow Red hatters with hattitude and show honour amongst my hatter sisters.”
Pledge Example #6
“I… being of somewhat sound mind, and desiring to have more fun in the prime of my life, do solemnly swear to uphold the ideals of the RHS, as soon as I figure out what they are.”
Pledge Example #7
“I,_____ , not solemnly but with a silly grin, pledge on my red/pink hat to have fun, and only fun, with ________. I will uphold the spirit by proudly wearing to all gatherings the full regalia of a purple/lavender outfit with an accompanying red/pink hat, even if I look horrific in purple/lavender. I promise to never take off my hat at gatherings, even though it gives me hat hair. I will do more than just belong. I will participate and give all that I can with my red heart. I will be more than friendly, I will be a friend in sisterhood to all the Hatters.”
Pledge Example #8
“I vow to embrace this time in my life as the beginning of the best.
I will reserve at least one day of each month for me.
I accept chocolate as a main food group.
I consider dessert as the main course of a meal.
I will do my best not to take life too seriously.
I choose to laugh as often as possible.
I believe that fun is an essential in life.
I welcome the Red Hat adventures that await me.
I accept the friendships that are around me.
I will be a dedicated Red hatter!”
Pledge Example #9
“Do you solemnly promise on your red hat, that you will do your best, to uphold the spirit of ___{chapter name}___ and The Red Hat Society
and proudly wear the colours at all our functions and never take your hat off, even though it gives you hat hair?
Do you agree to deal with growing more mature with humour and to take our foolishness seriously?
Do you promise to speak only of pleasant subjects at ___{chapter name}____ gatherings?
Do you promise to learn to play your kazoo in the proper manner, or at least learn Happy Birthday?
Do you join in the spirit of friendship & sisterhood as we bond together affectionately, by common, been there, done that & with real enthusiasm for whatever comes next?”
Pledge Example #10
“I, _________________________, A royal subject of the of the red hat society, do hereby pledge:
To wear my hatter colours proudly.
To never be ashamed of having fun.
To show my spirit of adventure at dress-ups by trying something new.
To forget the troubles of the “outside” world during dress-ups.
To turn back time and reach for the little girl inside of me.
To giggle, laugh, dress-up, and play.
To treat not only my chapter, but all other chapters of the red hat society with hattitude that shows honor among all my hatter sisters.”
Find a Christmas decoration ball that has a hinged opening or somehow comes apart. Inside place the Friendship ball poem (below) and a small item such as a pair of earrings, a pair of gloves etc. This ball is given to a member who can keep the item inside and add a new one for the next person. They bring the ball with the new treasure inside to the next gathering and pass it on.
The Friendship Ball
A ball is a circle,
No beginning, no end.
It keeps us together.
Like our Circle of Friends.
But the treasure inside, for you to see
is the treasure of friendship
You’ve granted to me.
Today I pass the friendship ball
to you.
Pass it on to someone who is a friend to you.
A good multi-chapter event. There are numerous ways you can hold a scavenger hunt, so get creative. You can break everyone up into teams of 2 or more. You can have them in one location – such as a shopping centre, or have them search around a whole town.
Set a start and finish time, hand out each team a sheet of instructions and things they are looking for. Make sure you specify if they are to bring back items or just photograph them, and if they need to enter any shops or if they are only to look from outside.
As this is likely to cause some disruption to the shops or shopping centre, please ask the shopping centre management or the council before planning a scavenger hunt.
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Shopping Centre
Go to a shopping centre and split into pairs or groups (pair up people who don’t know each other to help them make new friends!) and together they need to find landmarks and other points of interest around the shopping centre. Using cryptic clues for the things the members need to find.
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Find a number/letter
Can be done with an indoor shopping centre or small strip of shops – ask the shops to display a number/letter you give them (perhaps cut from red glitter card) in their front window. Hunters need to note the shop name and what letter/number they found.
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Landmarks
Set clues for which landmarks they are hunting for. These could be street signs, statues, a particular tree or shop. They can photograph the landmark or note down some answer they get from that location.
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Photographic Hunt
Teams must take photos of the following scenarios:
The 10 Red Hatter commandments:
Author Unknown
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Red Hatter creed:
I will not walk softly, but I will carry a big stick.
I will laugh hard, loud, and often I will have fun, and play hard.
I will put all work and responsibilities off until tomorrow.
I will take time to smell the flowers.
I will never use the following words: “diet”, “exercise”, “fat”, “guilt”, “careful”, “slow”, “quiet”, “rules”, “laws”, “boundaries”, or “limits”.
I will never say “Shhhhhhhh”.
I will flaunt my red hat and purple dress.
I will not always endure the restraints of underwear.
I will eat chocolate excessively and unyieldingly.
I will learn to indulge myself in both familiar and unfamiliar ways
And will encourage Red Hat behavior.
by Lil’ Mz.Chevious (Carole Mebane, RHS Moll)
Ode to a Red Hatter
Isn’t it lovely and simply divine?
To finally be fifty and not forty-nine?
Fifty has substance, fifty has style;
Now you can do things that make folks smile.
None of this nonsense talk of “over the hill”
Relax and have fun, just do what you will.
You can wear purple outfits and a silly red chapeau;
Trimmed in feathers and flowers, be always on the go.
None of that “old talk” for this active bunch;
It’s off to bingo, or a tea shop lunch.
We may have some aches; wrinkles may dot the skin;
But we’re in glorious shape, for the shape that we’re in.
We giggle and simper, gossip and tease;
Say what we feel, it’s us that we please.
You may find us silly; you may roll your eyes;
You may think purple, a strange disguise.
But purple is royal, it makes a grand show;
We have a Queen Mother; she is wise we all know.
So dust off the cobwebs and let’s have some fun.
Join The Red Hats, where new life has begun.
You can be an old fogey and sit on the side;
Or join all of us, wear our colors with pride.
That is our story; we hope you’ll agree;
Belonging to The Red Hats, is the best place to be……
(Author Unknown)
The 2016 Queen’s Council (Queenathon) was held on 1st May in Wantirna. There were Queens/Vice Queens and representatives from 21 Chapters around Victoria.
The event was held with topics being discussed first on each table, then a summary of those discussed points was given to the entire room, so that everyone could benefit from the sharing of ideas.
The hills were awash with a sea of red and purple, when 80 Red and Pink Hatters from around Victoria (and the border) got together for a weekend of fun (and a little business).
The “Arabian Nights and Majestic Days” weekend event saw the ladies starting out with a ride on the Puffing Billy steam train to Emerald, where they enjoyed a picnic, a stroll around Emerald Lake park and some shopping!
Later that evening the ladies were dazzled with bellydance performances and had fun dressing up for an “Arabian Nights” themed dinner.
Then, after all the fun and frivolity, it was eventually time to get down to business. The Queens and Vice Queens from 21 different groups around Victoria got together to share ideas and network as part of the annual “Queen’s Council” lunch.
The REDuation ceremony celebrates the progression from Pink Hatter to Red Hatter.
Ideas:
New members can be welcomed with a ceremony where they can be presented with their name-badge and officially be given their Royal name. You may also like to give them a Red Hatter survival Kit. There are pledges/vows the new member can take as well. These can be tailored to your needs.
For the ceremony, you can call the member forth. You may like to have a red carpet (length of red fabric or scarf/sarong/pashmina), with the chapter members standing along each side to form a walkway. Members can hold (closed) umbrellas/parasols up to form an archway.
The Queen should say some words of greeting to the new member. The 10 Red Hatter commandments could be read:
The idea is to take an outfit name, such as “bell bottoms” and make a literal version, for example attaching bells onto your derriere. A selection of names for clothing items that could have literal meanings are placed in a hat and members draw one (keeping it secret), then at the fashion show (perhaps a week or two later) they show off the creations they have made. Having fun descriptions to read out as the ladies are showing off their creations would be good
The Commentator can wear a sack dress with potatoes on it (common-tater ;) )
Examples
Some chapters have celebrations they do for Christmas and Birthdays. Some chapters will send members a birthday card on their birthday, or mention all the birthdays for the month in their newsletters. Chapter funds may be used to pay for a drink for the member whose birthday falls during that month – or other such customs.
Some ideas for Christmas gift exchange are:
You may like to hold a larger get-together with ladies from other local chapters, or open it up to invite any Hatters from around Victoria or even around Australia.
Running a larger event can be a bit daunting so here are some tips:
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Pick a date that doesn’t conflict with any existing Hatter events or any public holidays. Make sure to check the upcoming events and our Facebook Group events. If your event is a large one that interstate Hatters might like to attend, make sure it’s not on when any other large events are on (in any State)
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Choose a venue that has good parking and ideally good facilities for those with mobility issues and access to public transport. If serving food, check they can cater for food intolerances.
Picnic – Attendees bring their own food, and you can find a park that won’t cost money to hire. Be aware that you’ll need toilets and shade might also be good to have. Check insurance issues and if any council regulations apply.
Restaurant meal with group booking – Attendees will pay for their own meal and drinks. The venue will have insurance, making this a nice easy way to have an event. Although numbers might be limited due to space. Also make sure to choose restaurants that will allow each guest to pay for their own meal (usually “clubs” do this, smaller restaurants usually do not)
Booking a private room/venue – These usually require you to pay a fee to hire the space, and you’ll also pay a price per head for each meal.
When doing this, you will need to make sure you cover your costs. Make sure you add up how much the venue hire costs, plus any decorations you need to buy, and any other expenses (not including the food costs at this point). If you are including goodies/prizes, factor those in too. Then work out how many people you can have attending (and if there’s minimum number of guests you need).
Dividing the total cost of all expenses by the number of attendees will give a cost per person you need to charge (on top of the cost of the food) to break even in an ideal situation where all seats are booked.
However if you don’t have full attendance or you have cancellations, then you’ll be out of pocket. So you may like to either add a few dollars onto the charge of each guest, or run some raffles or other moneyraising things at the event to cover those extra expenses. If you end up with a profit, you can put that towards your next event.
Make sure you have all the bookings you need by the date you’ll need to cancel by to get deposits back. So you can cancel the event if you need to.
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Not all Hatters can cope with a lot of physical activity or a long event. So if you have a multiple day event, you may need to schedule a rest time between morning and evening events. Some ladies might want to go back to their rooms to freshen up and change clothes.
If you have an event where attendees will need to move from one building/activity to another, make sure to allow plenty of time for those who walk slowly.
If you are having games and activities, make sure to allow plenty of time for everyone to move around and get ready.
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Make sure your attendees know everything they need: Cost, date, time, when payment is due, how to make payment (on the day or in advance), dresscode, expectations (eg if there will be anything unusual like walking/stairs/games), who is running it – and anything else you think they should know beforehand.
Depending on the venue, giving information on parking, accommodation options in the area and other such things can also be very helpful for your guests.
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Give plenty of advanced warning/notice of the event (even post a “saving the date” if you have a date in mind but no further details ready) – so everyone has time to prepare (including you!!).
This allows your attendees to keep the date free, set money aside and it also allows other Chapters to know when your event is when planning their own to avoid conflicts.
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If you do not have a policy to cover your chapter, then you may wish to choose venues that have their own insurance cover. Check liabilities of hosting in public parks and at member homes etc.
Easy & pretty way to make event flyers
The easiest way to make a great looking flyer is to use Canva (which is a free online tool) – this allows you to make great looking posters and other things, using graphics and templates they provide. You can then download the creation as an image or a .pdf (or both!).
One thing to be aware of – I would recommend creating a new gmail/hotmail email address that you only use for accessing Canva (eg do not use your existing one!) and DO NOT use the same password for canva as you do for anything else. This is because the website has been known in the past to have data breaches (where email addresses and passwords get stolen, allowing “hackers” to then use your email/password to get into other sites pretending to be you). If you use an email address and password for Canva that is not used for anything else, then there is no problem using the site (I use canva regularly myself, and it’s not an issue if you use a separate email/password)
Making an image on your laptop/PC
You can open a new blank file in a graphics program (all laptops/computers should come with a basic one, they are usually called “paint” or something similar). Then just make your event flyer in that and save it as a .png file (higher quality) or .jpg file (lower quality). If you want something fancier, you can download a free program called “Gimp” which has more options, or use Adobe Express (also free).
Making a .pdf from a .doc file
If you’ve written your event flyer in Microsoft Word, you can use Adobe Acrobat Online to convert it to a .pdf for free.
A free alternative to Microsoft Word is Libre Office which has inbuilt ability to save files as a .pdf. When using that program you can go to “File”, then select “export as” and save the document as a .pdf. Easy!!
Making a .pdf into an image -You can use your “PrtScn” button on your keyboard to take a screenshot of what you’ve made, then open a graphics program (eg “paint”) – choose to “paste” the image, then choose the “crop” tool and drag the edges to select only your flyer, then save that cropped version as an image.
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These can be fun, but be mindful of how easily members may be able to find/make outfits to go with the theme (and the cost of them participating in costuming). Try to pick an easy theme, perhaps a variation on themes other chapter events have already done that members might already have costumes for, and perhaps offer some suggestions to get the creative juices flowing.
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Be mindful of the cost – not all Hatters have the same budgets or availability.
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Make sure it is not just the Queen running it to save your Queen from burning out. Get the chapter involved – which can help the members feel more part of the event too.
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Privacy for yourself as an event host:
Privacy for your Attendees:
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Not all Victorian Hatters check this website, and not all Victorian Hatters are on our facebook group either. Therefore for maximum exposure for your event it is recommended to:
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If making “showbags” or goodie bags for the attendees (or putting some little place setting gifts), make sure you plan this in advance so you can grab some bargains to keep your costs low. Also be aware that while fun, these are not necessary!
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Some event hosts like to provide a registration form where attendees have to fill out their details and sign a waiver – rather than simply having the attendees email or phone to RSVP.
While you may only need to know their name so you can make sure you know how many (and who) is attending, it is also a good idea to have at least their phone number and email address in case you need to contact them to inform them of any changes to the event.
If you do have a booking/registration form for your event, please be aware that these can be problematic for both event hosts and the attending hatters for these reasons:
Options for Booking forms
— please note that you should NEVER request or send credit card information via email, facebook, messenger, whatsapp etc. These are NOT secure enough to transmit sensitive information such as credit card information! (The reason is difficult to explain briefly, but it’s easy for the information to be intercepted and used nefariously). Send this information over the phone instead.
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Indemnity forms added with booking forms can be problematic for the reasons stated above with booking forms.
An alternative to having Hatters complete a waiver at registration may be to have as part of the booking process wording that says that by booking and attending this event, you agree to the terms of the waiver. So long as that’s clear, then all attendees have agreed to your terms by the fact they are at the event.
A sign-in sheet at the event that includes a waiver may also be a good option regardless of whether your booking form includes one or not – so all those attending have to sign in, which also signs the waiver, as well as providing you with a list of those who actually attended. You can download a sign-in sheet here
Also be aware that simply having an indemnity waiver may not be adequate to prevent any liability should an incident happen at the event, so they may actually be worthless. It is best to seek legal advice on waivers and public liability if you are unsure.
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Games suitable for RHS events where the ladies are up and moving.
Famous Couples
A great ice breaker and way for ladies to get to know each other. Have the names of famous couples on separate pieces of paper. Put these into a hat and each person draws one piece of paper. They then have to find who their partner is and get to know them. Examples:
Musical Bag O’ Clothes
Take a large bag (that is not transparent enough to see what’s inside) and fill it with an assortment of odd/unusual types of clothing articles. Items such as bras, swimsuits, girdles, baggy pants, men’s trousers, wigs, hats, etc…. Have the ladies sit in a circle so it’s easy for them to pass the bag around to each other. They pass the bag around in one direction, to music. When the music stops, whoever is holding the bag has to reach in without looking and pull out an item. Whatever they pull out, they have to put on and wear. Continue until you run out of items, then vote on who is wearing the wackiest outfit. You can give a prize.![]()
Pantyhose Golf/Bowling
Place a tennis ball in one leg of the pantyhose. You can then have the pantyhose tied around the waist by the empty leg, or wear them on your head (cut off or tuck in the remaining leg). Arms must be held behind your back. For “golf” the ladies need to use the swinging pantyhose to tap a pingpong ball across to the other side of the room. For “Bowling” they need to knock over a series of small water-filled water bottles. The winner is the first one to achieve the goal. Can be run in teams of 2 at a time.
Feather Blowing Game
Give each Hatter a feather. When you say, “GO!” the ladies have to start blowing the feather in the air. Whoever can keep the feather in the air the longest (using only her breath) is the winner. This game can also be played in teams (the team to keep the feather in the air longest using only breath wins)
Lucky Seat
A good idea for a lucky door prize (if you don’t have allocated seating) – tape a red ribbon under one seat before anyone arrives. When you want to draw the winner, have everyone stand up and look under their seat.
The Chocolate Game
Have everyone sit around in a circle. A, unwrapped block of chocolate with a knife and fork should be in the centre, along with a hat, scarf and gloves. Everyone takes turns to roll a dice, when someone rolls a 6 they can go into the centre and put on the clothing then use the knife and fork to cut squares of chocolate. They can only eat the chocolate if it has been cut while wearing all the clothing items. While they are dressing and cutting, everyone continues to keep rolling. When someone else rolls a 6, they go into the centre and the first person must take the hat/scarf/gloves off and go back to their place.
Musical Hat
Everyone sits in a circle. A Red hat containing 3 small envelopes (each with a note inside) is passed around to music. When the music stops, the person holding the hat must stand up, choose an envelope and read out the activity shown on the paper and act it out. This may be something like doing the “I’m a little teapot” song etc. (You could play this with more than 3 envelopes).
Unwrap the Parcel
A bit like the chocolate game mixed with pass the parcel. Wrap a small item in layers of wrapping paper, as you would for pass the parcel. Have this in the centre of a circle, along with a pair of oven mitts, a hat and a scarf. Players take turns to roll the dice. When a player rolls a 6 they can go into the centre, put on the clothing items and start unwrapping the layers until someone else rolls a 6 and replaces them. Whoever unwraps the last layer to reveal the prize gets to keep the item.
Games suitable for RHS events where the ladies are seated (eg at a restaurant), and will need to have pens and paper.
Red Hat Dice Game
You will need one dice, as well as a pen and paper for each lady. Each lady will roll the dice and draw the body part that corresponds with that number. A fun way to play is so that they can draw any part in any order! If a part has already been drawn, they can’t do anything that turn and must wait for their next turn.
Roll a 1 – draw a hat with decorations
Roll a 2 – draw the head
Roll a 3 – draw the face & hair
Roll a 4 – draw the upper torso & blouse
Roll a 5 – draw a skirt
Roll a 6 – draw legs/feet/shoes![]()
Replace Your Darling Husband
Hand everyone a piece of paper and ask them to write down an appliance they wish they could replace and 5 reasons why they want to replace that item. (Such as refrigerator, car, television, vacuum, etc.) When they’ve finished that, tell them to replace the name of the appliance with the name of their husband and read the whole thing aloud.
If The Hat Fits
Everyone has to list all the expressions/phrases they can think of that contain the word “HAT”. Prize awarded to the person who can think of the most. Some examples:
HAT in hand, Toss your HAT into the ring, A tip of the HAT, HATS off to you, Watch me pull a rabbit out of my HAT, Mad as a HATTER, Wear many HATS, Ugly as a HAT full of a-holes, I’ll eat my HAT, Keep it under your HAT, Does the Pope wear a funny HAT?, At the drop of a HAT, HAT in hand, Here’s your HAT, what’s your hurry?, Pass the HAT, Cat in the Hat, Home is where you hang your HAT, HAT trick, Talking through your HAT, His head’s too big for his HAT
Guessing Jars
Have about 10 small jars (baby food jars or other similar size) with different kitchen items in each (no duplicates). Things like sugar, poppy seeds, cocoa, cinnamon, salt, instant coffee, etc. Number each jar. Give each person playing a sheet of paper numbered to write their guesses of what each one is. You cannot open the jar to smell, feel or taste. After tallying correct names, a prize is awarded to the person who correctly guessed the most.![]()
Name That Baby
Each lady brings a photo of themselves as a baby. Each photo then gets numbered and placed somewhere where everyone can see them. Keep a list of the numbers and corresponding names hidden away. Everyone then guesses who the photos are. Give a prize to the one who can identify the most pictures.![]()
Drawn Together
Everyone is given a piece of paper and either a small pack of pencils/crayons each, or have a container of them on the table for everyone to use. The ladies are all told to look at each other, to remember what they look like – what clothing they are wearing and what accessories etc. (so that they aren’t caught looking at their person later). Each lady then picks a name at random from the hat – this is who they will draw on their piece of paper.
After everyone has finished their drawings, the drawings are held up for everyone to see, one by one. The ladies have to call out if they think the drawing is of them. If a lady guesses correctly that the picture is of them, they get a prize. If they are also able to guess who drew the picture, that person also gets a prize. A prize can be awarded to the person who gets the most correct guesses.
Name that cake
Everyone has a piece of paper, and writes their answer to which cake these cryptic clues could be referring to.
Name that Pie
Everyone has a piece of paper, and writes their answer to which pie these could be.
Guess the contents
Fill up a number of small cloth bags with a 4 different small items in each. The bags are sealed so nobody can peek inside. Pass bags around and everyone has to write down what they guess the contents to be. You can either use multiple bags with the same contents (so the ladies don’t have to wait as long for their turn), or have multiple bags with different contents and write a number on each bag (so the ladies write what they think is in each bag)
Word Scrabble
Have a number of letters from a scrabble set (or make up large cardboard squares with different letters that the ladies can easily read). Each participant then has to write down as many words as they form, out of the letters within a certain time. Winner is the one with the most words. A short version can be “winner with most words starting with….”
Telegram
Give each player a sheet of paper and a pen or pencil. Each player in turn, calls out a letter of the alphabet at random, and all players write down the letters as they are called out. A list of about 15 letters should be formed in this way. The players then have five minutes in which to compose a telegram, the words of which must begin with the listed letters in the order they were given.
For Example: If the letters were H, A, I, I, B, B, A, U, T, L, D, H, S, A, O, C – one player might write: Have Arrived In Boston But Am Unable To Locate Deckchairs Hence Send All Over ……..Cynthia
Whereas another player might write: Hurry And Immediately Bring Back All Unused Tea Leaves ..stop.. Daddy Hates Sipping Ale Or Cola
When the 5 minutes are up each player reads his telegram, and the winner is the player whose telegram is judged to be the most sensible, the cleverest, the wittiest, the silliest, etc
Pass the paper / continue the story
Someone (perhaps the Queen) starts writing a story, by writing one word or one line of the story on a piece of paper. The paper is folded so that people cannot read the previous lines that have been written, so nobody will know what the story is about until it is read out. The paper is then passed to the next person, who adds their word/line and so on until everyone has had a turn. It can continue around again or the story be read out then when the last question has been answered, the story is read out.
The lines they write could be:
Quizz
Have a collection of questions, such as tv shows, music and fashion from the 60s. Read out the questions and have each lady write her answers. When the questions are finished, the ladies swap their papers and the scores are tallied up (swapping the papers for scoring ensures no cheating!)
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What If
Pass out two pieces of paper to each lady present. On one piece of paper, they each write a question that starts with the words “What if ….? (eg: “What if ….a Red Hatter lost her hat?”)
The ladies pass this paper to the person on their LEFT. On the second piece of paper, they answer the question they just received. Then they pass that answer back to the person they received it from. Have the lady on your RIGHT read her question. The lady sitting to her RIGHT reads her answer. She then reads her question and the person sitting to her RIGHT reads her answer. This continues around the room until everyone has read both a question and an answer.
Games suitable for RHS events where the ladies are seated (eg at a restaurant), and don’t need pens and paper for writing.
The Name Game
Have stickers with various famous people’s names on them. As everyone arrives to the event, place a sticker on their back, and they need to ask questions (that can only be answered “yes” or “no”) to guess which famous person they have on their sticker. Once they have guessed they can remove the sticker. You could give a prize to the first person to correctly guess who they are, or give a small prize to everyone when they correctly guess.![]()
Handbag Scavenger Hunt
Place some scrabble tiles (or pieces of paper with each letter of the alphabet written on them) in a bowl or bag (1 of each letter). The ladies gathered around have their handbag with them. When you call out a letter chosen from the bowl, the ladies search their handbags to find something starting with that letter. Eg “L” might be lipstick, “P” might be a pen… The winner is the person with the most found items.![]()
My Life in a Bag
Everyone brings a bag that contains little mementos or trinkets from their life. Everyone takes turns to show these items around and explain their significance in that person’s life. For example they could be photos, trophies, awards, ticket stubs…. anything!
This and That Game
Players sit in a circle. First player asks something that is “This” or “That”, The next player answers and asks the next player “This” or “That”. Continue playing until everyone has a turn, or keep going just to see how silly it can get.
Example:
Player 1 “Meat or Vegetables”
Player 2 “Meat” – “Cotton or Flannel”
Player 3 “Flannel” – “Soft Cheese or Hard Cheese”
Player 4 “Soft” – “Popcorn or Crackers”
Player 5 “Popcorn” …. and so on and so on……![]()
Kiss The Teddy
A Teddy bear is passed around and everyone takes turns to kiss it somewhere. Once it has been passed around to everyone, they are told they must now kiss the person next to them in the same place they kissed the teddy!
Sales Pitch
Blindfold one lady and tell her that she must try to sell a mystery object. If she is convincing enough, she wins a prize. The object is placed in front of her, but she cannot touch it or see it. Everyone else can see what it is – and it’s a roll of toilet paper! She has to answer questions about the product she is selling.
The M&M game
Pass a bag of M&Ms (or other lollies) and tell the ladies they may take some, but not to eat them yet. Have plenty available. Once everyone has taken their share, announce that they must tell everyone one fact about themselves for each M&M they have taken!
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Name a Song
Someone starts by choosing any word they want, and the other players have to pick a song that has that word in it. Whoever gets it first, then it’s their turn to choose a word. If the group never heard the song before, they will ask you “I challenge you”, and that person has to sing a piece of the song. (Just so that everyone knows the person isn’t making it up!)